tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22397898962791907052024-03-12T19:00:34.473-05:00eHeart 谈 谈 坛eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.comBlogger113125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-14669373218605024692014-04-18T15:23:00.000-05:002014-04-18T15:23:11.035-05:00神<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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74歲還奮鬥工作的他</div>
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是要告訴馬來西亞人民也該奮鬥嗎</div>
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以突然離開世間的方示</div>
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是要告訴人民不能再等一届又一届嗎<br />
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身體滅了</div>
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沒人能見到他了</div>
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人人却記住他的精神</div>
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這就是神!</div>
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<br />eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-55273800048139947952014-04-04T14:31:00.002-05:002014-04-04T14:31:46.284-05:00玻璃陶瓷<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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週日經過一處新的品牌outlet mall, 我們去逛一逛。進去一家賣厨具的品牌店。</div>
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出來時,這套炊具跟着一起回家了。</div>
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據說要吃得健康,除了食物本身,炊具的資材料也是促使食物的因素。</div>
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從一些資訊,好資料的陶瓷似乎是最好的炊具。</div>
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我有两個小的陶瓷鍋,中國製造的,我對中國的陶瓷材資,不是很信任。</div>
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但我一直找不到真被檢驗證明的陶瓷炊具。</div>
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不過比起來,我比較信任它,法國製造。</div>
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<br />eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-44839427450105718102013-12-05T10:52:00.000-06:002013-12-05T10:52:34.945-06:00進了ICU前些時候<br />
頭頂痛得很<br />
珍斷得知<br />
營養缺乏<br />
怎麼可能<br />
外表看起來不是好好的嗎<br />
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終於撐不住<br />
倒下了<br />
被送進緊急創傷部<br />
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唉<br />
要怪誰呢<br />
都是<br />
都是商家的無良<br />
不知供應了什麼樣的產品<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">昨天整理行李一整天,不知為什麼心情很繃緊,</span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Steve</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">跟談話,我已很不很不耐煩。</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">我出門已無數次,這次很不一樣。我想應該是每次都不一樣的吧?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">放鬆。。。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">我會試在每一機場拍一拍這</span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">'</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">廣告</span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">'</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">!</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">第一個故事: </span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">我帶</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_66" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">相公</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_69" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">去蛇廟,上車後我跟司機說,停蛇廟的站。他顯得很不友善。當來到接近蛇廟時,我按車鈴,司機即停在一車站。我發覺離蛇廟還有一些距離,我問司機,是否下一站才是?他很兇的駡我不該按錯鈴,一大堆罵人的話,至到我下車前我跟他說: Jagan marah (不用生氣)。這次給我的美國人相公很不好的印象。</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">第二個故事: 朋友臨時給我一張'弘一大師傳'歌劇,我趕著去檳州大會堂。我看到是到Jetty的巴士我就上車。在半路車上下起大雨,來到Jetty</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">站</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_75" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">已剩下我一人了,我跟司機說我要去大會堂,他說這車沒經過,不過他很友善的說讓我下</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_95" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">比較靠近</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_105" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">鐘樓的U turn</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_101" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">的地方,</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_93" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">下車前我謝謝他</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_78" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">。</span><br />
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<span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_80" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">第三個故事: 在光大等巴士,很多人。巴士來了,很多人不像是排隊,我前後左右有人,慢慢的,我看到旁邊的人</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">,</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_83" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">在悄悄的要拉開我包包的拉鏈,我的相機的手帶露在外吸引到扒手了!我趕快移開我的包包,他知道不能得逞,跟前面差不多要上車的伙伴打手勢,折返離開車站 。我上車想了很久,不知要不要告訴司機,至到車內的人較少時,我才跟司機說</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">,</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_85" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">光大的車站有扒手。他說我應該早就告訴他,他們要抓這些人。</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">下次我回檳城</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">坐公共巴士,再看有</span><span id="yui_3_7_2_21_1365519489328_113" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 18px;">什麼</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">故事。</span><br />
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經我再與朋友描述'枕頭'餅</div>
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朋友的朋友從馬來西亞帶了5小包的'枕頭'餅</div>
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哄哄我這貪零食的內在小孩</div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">農歷新年要到了,我回想在和家人過年時,媽媽是做什麼食物的?</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">我突然想到。。</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">quen
jiang</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">(潮州話),上綱查了下,應是卷煎。做法一樣但材料下同,我媽做的是素食材料。</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">這潮州人小食,只有家人才會過年過節做,我從沒在檳城的食物攤有見過。我已有很多年沒吃了,突然想念起來,</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">skype</span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">問了大姐用什麼材料及如何做。</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">我不想用整鍋油炸煎,只放少許麻油煎。</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">嘻嘻。。。做出來了,好吃。</span></span></span></div>
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Louis</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">的前一天時,他問我要什麼東西嗎?我想了想</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">... </span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">你猜猜,我會要什麼東西?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">還有</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">'</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">枕頭</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">'</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">餅,可是他不知什麼是</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">'</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">枕頭</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">'</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">餅,我也不知真正的名叫什麼,那是我在小學開始就喜歡買的零食,小小粒像枕頭的形狀,雖然包裝外有印一只紅色的蝦,但不是真正有蝦料做的。</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace; font-size: large;">不該施錢給他,因為會影響社會增加更多乞討的人數。</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace; font-size: large;">他已年老了,可能這就是他沒能有工作賺錢沒收入沒飯吃。</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace; font-size: large;">他可能有不得已的苦衷,才會連尊嚴都不要來討乞。</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace; font-size: large;">所以,我問自己我該不該施錢給乞討者?我想,不知道,要視當時的情況。</span></span></span></div>
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我很快的掃瞄他們一下,他們三人也看著我,他們包括小女孩的臉都很沉。我問回他,“</span></span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">What's
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">我回家後對</span></span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">Steve</span><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">說起這事,然後問他,真擔憂他們今晚天氣冷,不知會怎樣渡過。如果再遇到無家可歸者,可收容他們嗎?他說不要</span></span></span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">太</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">相信他們。</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">今天,我打算寫這件事前,我突然想</span></span></span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">到,</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">我做錯了</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode;"><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">我要給他們錢,也應該背著小孩,及讓那男的知道,避免傷到小孩</span></span></span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">的</span><span style="font-family: 楷体, monospace;">心靈。</span></span></div>
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eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-12801270737611447302012-09-17T16:36:00.000-05:002012-09-17T16:37:10.643-05:00怪怪的規矩<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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我自認是正信佛教徒,雖然不很積極參加佛教團體的活動,但我還是以為我可以無條件的當義工或分享我所煮的食物給佛教團體,可是我被拒於門外了(不用來做義工或不要拿食物來分享)。</div>
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我從沒想要有回饋/報,但被回拒,我就感覺情況不如我思想單純,他們是否誤會我什麼了?</div>
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詢問了何以如此之後,才知道原因是<span lang="EN-US">..</span>必須要有施有受,我沒參與他們的佛法活動,我沒受,他們也不要我的施(分享食物),也不好意思要我做義工,及他們沒施給我什麼却要受,就不如法。</div>
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原來這兒有這樣的規矩(或這是他們的理論)。</div>
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先聲明不是一概而論,我也有到其他團體當義工,以上情況是我遇到的两個(台灣人)的佛教團體。</div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">在前個星期,我禁不住跟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">Steve</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">談起</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">H</span><span id="yui_3_2_0_9_1346424910802596" style="font-size: 12pt;">已越來越開放及正向思惟,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">Steve</span><span id="yui_3_2_0_9_1346424910802599" style="font-size: 12pt;">說是我的輔導幫助到她,雖然我沒承認,也不否認,因為我始終相信,只有自己才能做出改變,我不敢居功。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">今天,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">H</span><span id="yui_3_2_0_9_1346424910802602" style="font-size: 12pt;">向我說很感恩我,她原本很負向的人,被我的正向漸漸影響,我很像一盞亮着的燈,讓她從之前只認為</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">‘</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">正向</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">’</span><span id="yui_3_2_0_9_1346424910802606" style="font-size: 12pt;">只是字眼,現在她已體會到所謂的正能量。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">這些她親口給我的回饋,當然是一個肯定,也是給我鼓勵。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">我很高興,但我不是認為我有什麼了不起,我只是一個</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">‘</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">因</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">’</span><span id="yui_3_2_0_9_1346424910802610" style="font-size: 12pt;">(一盞燈),也許剛好適時在她生命過程出現、也許她認為我值得信任、也許她在找的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">‘</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">燈</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">’ </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">正適合她、也許</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 12pt;">... </span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_2_0_9_1346424910802613" style="font-size: 12pt;">總之我是再次替她高興。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">有時別人給你提點,你今天聽了能接受,明天就会改善,這就 是有進步有成長。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">而別人給你提點,你認為那是批評、被挑戰,防衛性一啓動,輕者給諸多理由,重者批評攻擊回。明天同樣如故,從此可能別人不會再對你多言。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">也許一年、十年...你被其他人點化後才真正</span><span style="font-size: large;">聽到而能接受,還好,還</span><span style="font-size: large;">是有進步有成長。只是</span><span style="font-size: large;">遲了些</span><span style="font-size: large;">。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">不要,到死時,依然不</span><span style="font-size: large;">能接受... 那就不用成長了。</span><br />
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我們走在 Niagara Falls 邊公園,各地遊客來來往往。迎對面有三個看似同齡的年青两男一女一起邊走邊談,女的在中間,她的左脚明顯受傷,右手用拐杖扶助,她的左手與其左邊的男生相握着,而她的右邊男生握的卻是-女生的另一支拐杖。<br />
我看了覺得很温馨。<br />
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不過,很好奇他們之間是怎樣的關係?<br />
<br />eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-35058183974561839672012-05-06T14:35:00.001-05:002012-05-06T14:35:13.935-05:00應值得表揚的老師<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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我猜他可能被施壓下而辭職,要不他這麽推崇教育愛學生,不為五斗米而折腰,又不指責反而委婉 "...因为理念不同"!<br />
真是一位高尚的老師啊!<br />
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'再苦也撑下去,草帽哥树典范'<br />
<a href="http://www.orientaldaily.com.my/index.php?option=com_k2&view=item&id=7699%3A&Itemid=114">http://www.orientaldaily.com.my/index.php?option=com_k2&view=item&id=7699%3A&Itemid=114</a>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-11226060939737454962012-04-02T21:37:00.002-05:002012-04-02T21:37:44.305-05:00靠嚇唬<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 11pt;">她说,华语将来还有得学,但是广东话就沒得学,所以有时迫他讲。</span><br />
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 11pt;">她说得对。我们的方言已渐渐一代一代的流失!</span>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-59605114670424879692012-03-26T20:29:00.001-05:002012-03-26T20:29:12.198-05:00土生土长的国人<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 11pt;">可是土生土长的非巫裔的马来西亚公民,从读书的那一年开始的待遇就不公平,不同的制度。不过,纳税时是一样的</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span><span style="font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></div>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-7036649702275991252012-03-16T19:32:00.001-05:002012-03-16T19:32:24.890-05:00互相学习<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">SAVE MALAYSIA </span></div>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-18359613158719366142012-02-26T12:18:00.001-06:002012-02-26T12:18:55.854-06:00关爱马来西亚<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">当我来了美国这儿,第一次收到</span>Steve<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">朋友的礼物时,我把礼物放置在旁。送礼者看我迟迟没折开礼物纸包装,最后忍不住对我说</span>:
“<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">为何不打开礼物看看?</span>” <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我才傻傻的按她的</span>‘<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">要求</span>’
<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">折开礼物纸包装。然后,送礼者看到我喜欢,送礼者也很欢喜。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">在马来西亚的文化是,通常都在送礼者离开后,才打开礼物看是什么东西。不知这是不是表示礼貌,双方都担心礼物没达到</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">‘</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">期侍</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">’</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">及免於现出不雅之表情,所以还是别当场</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">‘</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">表现</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">’ </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">?</span>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-86888761847475766932011-12-27T17:09:00.000-06:002011-12-27T17:09:08.170-06:00成功与否<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">接下篇文载</span>-<a href="http://ehearttalk.blogspot.com/2011/12/blog-post.html"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">话的力量</span></a>: </div>
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‘<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">考完</span>SPM<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">出社会的人就不能成功?</span>’ <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">他的其中一个问题。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">我记得我给他及组员们的分享大略是</span>: “<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">老实告诉你们,我只是考完</span>SPM<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">就出社会工作。我觉得我的生活很好,除了工作还当义工,一直学习,人生很充实。我的义工朋友很多是大学生、有些是硕士,但我对自己很有自信心,从不觉得自己比人差。</span>”
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">其实我的马来文科最差,</span>SPM<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">成绩是得到</span>8<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,即是</span>Pass<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">而已。教育制度</span>-<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">马来文沒优等就只能得乙等文凭,不能上政府大学预备班。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">我家庭不富,不能让我上私人学院,我也不是很喜欢啃书,就这样只好上社会大学了。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">除非有人问起,我是不会刻意分享这方面,因为我认为一个成功的人生並不是在於他的文凭学历,而是态度品格。</span></div>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-60543105007791870242011-12-15T20:04:00.000-06:002011-12-15T20:04:01.777-06:00话的力量<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<![endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">在面子书上看到一位朋友已大学毕业,而且已是一名工程师。我初认识他,是我协助一位从事辅导员的朋友到中学给学生营,他是其中一名中五学生,是我的组之学员。过后有一些时日,他是其中几位学员主动与我联系的一位。</span><br />
<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">不过,我们很多年已沒写讯息了,所以我就问候他及问他生活如何。</span><br />
<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">他回复</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">: “</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我很好。对了,我还记得当时</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">SPM</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">考前充电营,你提到的话。之后,我常愉悦面对我半工半读的生活。至到现在,你的话还是让我在人生做决择时很有帮助。在此,我要再说非常感谢你。</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">^^” </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><br />
<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">我再写给他</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">: “</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">是吗?我很高兴你告诉我,但我不记得我说了什么及为何而说,或是否你问了些问题?元钧,谢谢你,我爱你。</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">” </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><br />
<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">他再回复</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">: “</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">你说,</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">‘</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">考试的成绩不代表是生活的全部,尽了全力去考就好。只要尽了自己的全力,问心无愧,就不用担心你考到的成绩是好是坏,因为那是属于你的成绩。</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">’ </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">如没错,我的问题是,</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">‘</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">是不是考不好大考就没有美好未来?考完</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">SPM</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">出社会的人就不能成功?</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">’ </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">充电营后,我发觉我较能面对考试,我努力读书,得到</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">‘</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我的成绩</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">’ </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,我也能接受所有不擅长的科目如语文及历史的坏成绩。考完后,我并不担心成绩怎样,因为这是</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">‘</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我的成绩</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">’</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。这都是我从你那得到。我也爱你,心忆姐。</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">”</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt;"></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">啊,是。谢谢他让我记回。我真没期待,我的话能帮助及鼓励他,而且受用至今。我觉得很欣慰。</span><br />
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">若你有某人的话激发到你,记得要告诉他/她,这又可让他/她感受回响。</span><br />eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-88800614597890661452011-11-18T17:57:00.001-06:002011-11-18T18:00:46.497-06:00老婆是免费的煮饭锅<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">有一位听我回答我不用煮给先生,他一向以来自己烘煮鸡肉,她的回应,让我觉得她的思想很华人传统。</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">在家时间怎么过。</span>” “<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">他结婚了,还得自己煮,他很亏本。</span>” </div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun;">社会的价值观有时候真的会影响个人所响往的生活。</span></div>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2239789896279190705.post-30872390799776487902011-10-28T22:37:00.000-05:002011-10-28T22:37:46.111-05:00請別加害<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXYnHNZIKSkQTQ6-IM3lnc19qWRa9jK5_KLPYTWWADnrYOw4MPJ-koQlNo8S0sPQRw8fU1M7N5TpnLYccDQZmisYinccmmqQf_8u8eaZI-Gy2nOc45ULn-AG0ZIW46rC_jfjsCg0BFVtMW/s1600/DSCN2010t.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXYnHNZIKSkQTQ6-IM3lnc19qWRa9jK5_KLPYTWWADnrYOw4MPJ-koQlNo8S0sPQRw8fU1M7N5TpnLYccDQZmisYinccmmqQf_8u8eaZI-Gy2nOc45ULn-AG0ZIW46rC_jfjsCg0BFVtMW/s320/DSCN2010t.JPG" width="298" /></a></div><br />
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<span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;">"...</span><span style="color: #660000; font-size: small;">事件发生在一年了,到今天还没有得到以上信件的回复,因此她心里非常纳闷,无处投诉。</span><span style="color: #660000;"> </span><br />
<div style="color: #660000;"><span style="font-size: small;">她就是因为信任这位师父,才把一个14岁多的男童交托给他,才造成今天这男童心灵上蒙着一片黑影,心境非常难过及痛苦,对一个刚发育的内向男童来说,被魔压着难以解开,在这段成长过程中,不知会怎么样?</span></div><span style="color: #660000;"> </span><div style="color: #660000;"> </div><span style="color: #660000;"> </span><div style="color: #660000;"><span style="font-size: small;"> 事件的经过,我不要写的太明白,希望大家关注及明白就行。</span></div><span style="color: #660000;"> </span><div style="color: #660000;"><span style="font-size: small;">2/6/2010早上9.00多,师姐带孩子到佛寺,师父在书桌前帮孩子按摩,在没得到同意下将孩子带进他的房 间说用油帮他推拿。下午孩子在学校来电叫师姐载回家,说下体痛。师姐心很乱在想,为什么下体也要推拿?传短信问师父,师父说十二经络推拿是要退全身的,叫 孩子到回来,师姐觉的不大对劲直接将孩子载回家。师姐到处询问中医师,答案是没有这个方式,而且师父又不是中医师,为什么胡来推拿?</span></div><span style="color: #660000;"> </span><div style="color: #660000;"><span style="font-size: small;">隔天孩子下体仍然痛,唯有带他去看医生,医生发现有问题,问推拿人是否同性恋者,因为包皮裂了,这时师姐才发现 事态严重,慢慢的问孩子,不用隐瞒把事情的经过一五一十道来,原来这个师父讲了许多不堪入耳的话来引诱孩子,还告诉孩子,下次来会教他怎样变长,还夸说自 己的有多大,就这样借故按摩玩弄孩子的下体。</span></div><span style="color: #660000;"> </span><div><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #660000;">这项事件唤醒我们必须追查下去,孩子在发育年龄很多性的问题,不敢讲,也不敢问。就像那孩子如果不是医生看出来,师姐不追问下去,那里知道会遇到一个这样的变态师父也爆出佛门丑闻。谁又敢保证有些师姐吃了亏不敢出声,哑子吃黄连???。</span>"</span></div><div><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></div><div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:UseFELayout/> </w:Compatibility> <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style>
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...应“默摈”置之<br />
...说僧过是造了大阿鼻地狱的业<br />
...都已过了,为何连一个修行的出家人都不放<br />
...流言嗤语<br />
業障…<br />
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這是傷上加傷,對受害人是雙重傷害。<br />
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若這是真實的事,若投訴已做,那更應反求諸己,我希望這居然师姐尤其是她的男孩能尋得心理治療,為免男孩以后成長有無形障礙,或造成負向心態。<span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;"></span></div><div><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></div><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: SimSun; font-size: 12pt;"> </span>eHearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707913587276924859noreply@blogger.com2